I haven't met my family for two years. My heart aches a little bit when I saw my dad and my mom. They have aged since the last time I met them. And my little brother has grown up so fast. In my mind, he is still the little baby who would make me laugh all the time. But now he's just as tall as me. As a college student, everyday I worry about finishing up homework, going to work, and spending time for social activities. As a result, I subconsciously spend less time for my family. Less phone calls. No more deep conversations. Everything was fading away.
The hectic life has changed my priorities in life. School and work took over my life and I kept telling myself that I will have time for my family later. But time does not wait for me. I need to try harder if I truly love someone. When I get back to Utah, I am planning to talk to my family every week and checking on them more often. I will cherish every single moment with my family.
Although my family does not live as far away as yours, I understand what you are explaining. My family is on the east coast, while I am here in Utah. I miss them every day, especially since I have a little 1 year old sister and another one on the way! My family and I video chat every Sunday after church to catch up on the week, and make sure my sister doesn't forget my face. It isn't as good as seeing them in person, but it maintains the bond that I have with them. Good luck, and I hope that you can find the time to cherish your family :)
ReplyDeleteMia! What a blessing that you were able to go back to Vietnam to see your family! I hope it has been enjoyable. My family is a few states away as well! Facetime on sundays definitely helps, like Naomi said. It definitely takes effort (on both sides, I'd say) to maintain that relationship and stay up-to-date on your distant loved ones. Good luck! And safe travels!
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